Wildcat4mation
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Okay, so this is not totally about females; however, I can see where we males can end up in trouble. About a month ago, I went to an autobody shop and my glove compartment was open and an item was stolen. Thing is, I was stupid enough to drive my vehicle home and start calling the police and detective, who is still currently working on my case. He saw video footage and he states that "It did not happen. I am not stating that it was not stolen, it is just not here."
Cops are very objective (if that is the right word) and really will not steer unless there is evidence. I feel that that will be a downfall in marriage (I have not been married yet). If a gal states something, the world is basically open to her, meaning anything she states is also as good as physical evidence. When a man states something, UNLESS he is there at the scene of the crime or can provide evidence at that point in time, he is toast. This is why #metoo is so lethal and divorce rape from accusation is unfair. When cops are allowed to be subjective to one individual and not to another, males will always lose. I am trying to get a suspect convicted and at every step I am finding it hard to prove that the scene, my passenger side, is where it happened.
"It could have been someone else. It could have been you."
"OMG!! Just take a look at the evidence and let me know..."
I feel like I am experiencing first hand with a not so valuable item, what I will experience probably as an being an outright criminal, if I ever get married.
Males have to have evidence or else it did not happen. You cannot even state or suspect something without it being thrown back at you a hundred different ways.
Lesson learned about leaving anything in my car from here on out. O_O
Cops are very objective (if that is the right word) and really will not steer unless there is evidence. I feel that that will be a downfall in marriage (I have not been married yet). If a gal states something, the world is basically open to her, meaning anything she states is also as good as physical evidence. When a man states something, UNLESS he is there at the scene of the crime or can provide evidence at that point in time, he is toast. This is why #metoo is so lethal and divorce rape from accusation is unfair. When cops are allowed to be subjective to one individual and not to another, males will always lose. I am trying to get a suspect convicted and at every step I am finding it hard to prove that the scene, my passenger side, is where it happened.
"It could have been someone else. It could have been you."
"OMG!! Just take a look at the evidence and let me know..."
I feel like I am experiencing first hand with a not so valuable item, what I will experience probably as an being an outright criminal, if I ever get married.
Males have to have evidence or else it did not happen. You cannot even state or suspect something without it being thrown back at you a hundred different ways.
Lesson learned about leaving anything in my car from here on out. O_O
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